My Brazilian Pen Pal

Since I was a kid, I’ve loved learning about different cultures and places via postcards and pen pals. My first pen pal was Cédrine from Tarbes, France. Now, thanks to The Internet, I get to talk to folks all over the world!

For several years now, I’ve spoken with my Brazilian “pen pal” Luciano almost every day. We joke that we’re “music twins” because we love so much of the same music. We first bonded over our love of Ash and since have found that we both adore Jessica Lea Mayfield and many others.

Jessica Lea Mayfield by Luciano Oliveira (AKA neondemon.jpg)

This past September, I saw Jessica Lea Mayfield open for Lucero. After Mayfield’s set, I got to speak with her and told her all about Luciano (he’s one of her top ten listeners on Spotify!). Neither of us had a Sharpie, so instead of signing the CD booklet I brought or the vinyl I bought, she wrote to Luciano with a pink pen on a random postcard for The Friendly Toast that I had with me!

Luciano’s postcard from Jessica Lea Mayfield

Long story short: Luciano was inspired by me to write about his Top 25 Albums of 2025! There’s some overlap, which is no surprise given that we’re music twins, but I’ve also discovered some new tunes. You can find it on Tumblr and his blog.

Here’s an excerpt:

Entry six in Luciano’s Top 25: Soak by Black Honey

Needless to say, I think Luciano is very talented. Check out his art portfolio or follow him on Instagram! And cross your fingers that Ash, Jessica Lea Mayfield, and more artists make their way to Brazil!

2025: My Year In Books

This past year was rough for me. For the first time in my life, I had Reader’s Block. I won’t name names (or titles!), but two books in a row rubbed me the wrong way. They were just not good. Or maybe all the other books I read were just that much better? However you look at it, I just had a really hard time getting back into reading after those two no-good books. And ages ago, I adopted the practice of not finishing books that I didn’t like because life’s too short! But sometimes, one has to read a bad book (or two!) because of … obligations.

Anyhow! The good news is I’m outta that funk! The book that saved me was The Taylors by Jen Calonita. A middle grade book about a group of girls named after Taylor Swift broke the curse! It even gave me goosebumps.

Right after The Taylors, I found myself reading my book of the year, Atmosphere, by Taylor Jenkins Reid. Who would’ve thought that this graduate of Space Camp would fall hard for a sapphic, historical fiction novel about the first female astronauts at NASA?

Space Camp! I’m on the right.

Rounding out my favorite reads of the year:

  • Love Stories (The Taylors Version #1) by Elizabeth Eulberg – this is the young adult companion to Jen Calonita’s book.
My cat with Elizabeth Eulberg’s book
  • It Rhymes With Takei by George Takei (graphic novel/non-fiction)
  • Wake Up and Open Your Eyes by Clay McLeod Chapman (horror)
  • Mood Machine: The Rise of Spotify and the Costs of the Perfect Playlist by Liz Pelly (non-fiction)

This past year, I wrote book reviews on NetGalley, Goodreads, Amazon, StoryGraph, and this blog. I logged my book reading on both Goodreads and StoryGraph. I think it’s important to continue to write reviews on Amazon and Goodreads because those are still so vital for authors.

Without further ado, here’s what I read in 2025!

Favorite TV of 2025

In no particular order, my favorite television shows of 2025:

  • Dept. Q (Netflix)
  • Alien Earth (Hulu)
  • Task (HBO Max)
  • Andor (Disney+)
  • Adolescence (Netflix)
  • The White Lotus (HBO Max)
  • Silo (Apple TV)
  • Severance (Apple TV)
  • The Last of Us (HBO Max)
  • My Melody and Kuromi (Netflix)

I also really enjoyed watching the Boston Red Sox on NESN. It was great when they made it to the playoffs, but I wasn’t impressed by the national network broadcasters. I ended up putting WEEI on for my audio. Overall, the Major League Baseball postseason was exciting, especially the World Series.

Watching the Major League Baseball World Series with my cat

Music 2025: The Playlist

Here are 50 favorite songs of 2025 that helped me get through the year, available on Apple Music and Spotify. A friendly reminder to anyone who didn’t read Liz Pelly’s excellent Mood Machine: Spotify and the Costs of the Perfect Playlist-if you find something you like, please support the artists by buying their music/merch and by seeing them in concert.

Step Into Christmas

Ada Monroe Getting Into the Christmas Spirit | Photo by Amy Lordan-Tripp

Looking for some tunes to add to your Christmas playlist? Check out my “Step Into Christmas” playlist on Apple Music and Spotify! It includes bangers from Emmy the Great & Tim Wheeler, The Linda Lindas, and The Darkness. Plus classics from The Pogues (feat. Kirsty MacColl), Pearl Bailey, and Julie London. And there are some brand new tracks from Laufey, Ash, and Hilken & Melissa (feat. Kay Hanley).

Candy-O as Sandy Claws | Photo by Amy Lordan-Tripp